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"Billions of people have been parents. Many of them were probably idiots. Yet somehow, their billions of children managed to survive, grow up, and become useful members of society instead of serial killers."
It ain't rocket science, people. Love your kids, spend time with them, and try not to spoil them or act like a martinet.
The Parent Ego State (aka, neural network), contains the attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors "taken in" from external sources - primarily parents.
Outwardly, the Parent is often expressed towards others in prejudicial, critical, or nurturing behavior -- from Second Position. Inwardly, it's experienced as old parental messages which continue to influence the inner Child...some good messages and some limiting to the person.
every ten yrs a new trend, new generation begin around us... parents should understand the present generation mind set.. what they want?? they should open their eyes and come out of the nut shell and see d society, breathe d fresh air... otherwise they expect d same from their children what they did fifty yrs back.. what they did fifty yrs back sometime incongrous in current situation and if they refuse to accept that.. oh my God its real torture...
when they ask for chocolate, biscuits, pizza, toys they wont refuse, infact they leave it to their taste.. but when it comes to marriage, they will not allow any room for change from their idiotic dogma.... small small things they give freedom and finally they deny ur important decision of ur life.. its some sort of sadistic behaviour...
the principal underlying dynamic in operation here is control.. so called parental ego... its my job to choose a partner for u and i will not leave u find one for yourself seems to be the unstated feeling...
sooner or later they have to wake up... change is d only thing that does not change.. understand...
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